Why I Left Michigan, But Will (Probably) Come Back

by
Stephen Kokx
Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Michigan is truly a special place to live. It is home to beautiful summers, amazing golf courses, distinguished philanthropic organizations, and of course thousands of lakes that provide indescribable pleasures.

But Michigan is also known for the nation’s highest unemployment rate, frigid winters, the worst franchise in NFL history, and a crime rate that gives Detroit and Flint the distinction of being two of the most dangerous cities in America.

The Michigan State Flag

Which begs the question; is there any reason why young people should pledge allegiance to the Wolverine state?

As a recent college graduate, I anticipated entering the Michigan workforce after graduation. And I did.

Sadly though, it was a 20-hour a week job at Jimmy John’s. Not exactly what you hope for after taking out $25,000 in student loans.

Although the result of my education didn’t end up in a full-time position, the perspective I gained while enrolled at Aquinas College showed me that real education is not always learned in a classroom, but rather through experiences.

As a Saint, I welcomed incoming freshmen as an orientation leader, wrote for the school newspaper, served on the student senate, held several internships, and even lived in Chicago for a semester. Like anyone who experienced similar endeavors, I thought I would be a shoe-in for a job after graduation.

But I soon realized that the same old routine was getting repetitive. The job opportunities that arose were unrelated to my interests (eventually I would get turned down from over 10 employers), and the growing feeling that the real world was passing me by — out there, somewhere else — all aided in my increasing willingness to move on.

Although many of my college friends came to Grand Rapids from Lansing, Muskegon, and suburban Detroit, I was a lifelong Rapidian and was looking for any way out.

After several unsuccessful months of job hunting, I decided to apply to graduate school. I always enjoyed class and would describe myself as an academic. But I knew it wasn’t going to be in Michigan. The degree I wanted to obtain just wasn’t offered. So I looked elsewhere.

My pursuits led me to schools that ranged from California to Illinois. I was accepted to several but ultimately decided on Loyola University Chicago.

Although educational issues aided in my decision to depart from Michigan, anecdotal evidence suggests that twentysomethings are leaving for other reasons. Most notably, unemployment.

Responding to the shifts in attitude among young people, the state of Michigan started producing “Pure Michigan” commercials with the help of native sons Tim Allen and Jeff Daniels. The commercials are intended to boast what is “magical, unspoiled, timeless and true about the state.” The results have, surprisingly, shown an increase in tourism and a heightened interest, among young people, to stay in Michigan.

Reciprocity, it seems, is the tool which many politicians, business owners, and community organizers are marketing to young people in order to get them to stay. But, again, do we actually owe anything to the state in which we reside?

Perhaps an appropriate example would be to examine the choices made by the aforementioned spokespersons.

Tim Allen pursued his dreams of being an actor and comedian by leaving Michigan, as did Jeff Daniels. Granted they have since returned and done much good for the state. But it stands to reason that those who have talent and aspirations of a career that isn’t attainable in Michigan should look elsewhere.

Of course leaving for a short period of time isn’t a bad thing. The real problem, for Michigan, lies in its inability to draw is constituents back. Policy makers need to hold court over how to entice these people to invest in their home state; one way they can do that is through the promotion of non profits.

As stated in the first paragraph, one of the most distinguishable traits Michigan has is its generosity.

According to the Council of Michigan Foundations, Michigan has 2,521 nonprofit foundations with assets totaling $23.6 billion. While total giving is around $1.4 billion. Ranking Michigan 6th and 8th nationally in total assets and giving, respectively.

Impressive, for a state that, in 2007, had a per capital real GDP that was 14 percent below the national average.

But nonprofit organizations can’t be the only solution.

Historically, Michigan has been recognized as a manufacturing state. With furniture, automobiles, and manufacturing being its bread and butter. But the collapse of GM and Ford, along with the rest of the rust belt, has only advanced the disappearance of jobs.

It is my contention that, culturally, Michigan – especially the Midwest – is at least a year behind the rest of the country. Somewhere over the past 20 years, Michiganders grew complacent with their lifestyles, while other states chose to adapt.

Perhaps it’s generational.

But perhaps it isn’t.

The entrepreneurial spirit that Dan Redford advocates for in his article The Great Job Myth is exactly what Michigan is lacking. We need to reinvigorate the Michigan economy by applying different, not the same, principles than the older generation.

Examples of such principles have popped up over the past several months.

Wind energy, GM’s electric vehicle, and Grand Rapid’s Medical Mile are only a few of the investments where Michiganders are seeing positive, economic, results.

But, like other states, problems like rising tuition fees, increasing costs of living, and affordable health care also need to be addressed. These are the issues our legislators need to fix in order to retain not only young people, but the aging population as well.

When and if that happens, I’ll be back.

Michigan, you can count on me.


Stephen Kokx is a 2009 graduate of Aquinas College, where he studied Accounting and Sustainable Business. He is currently enrolled at Loyola University Chicago and will graduate with a M.A. in Social Justice and Community Development in 2011. Stephen regularly updates his blog and contributes freelance work to various Internet-based news magazines. Follow Stephen on Twitter.

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  • Rob
    Steve,

    I don't mean to turn this into an argument. I think your piece is well written, and makes some good points. I also agree with Tyler's point that, if given the opportunity, people should live elsewhere...at least for a little while. It's important to experience other cities and other countries. I have done both.

    I suppose I'm looking at this from a slightly different light than you. I'm from Detroit, not west Michigan. Yes, Michigan as a whole has it's issues, but when you drive through Detroit and look at all of the plight and decay, I can't help but ask myself "What can I do?" not "How can I get out of here?" The beautiful buildings and factories that built this country and helped win wars have been left to rot. It's sad. The people of this state (unfortunately) can't relay on government and public policy to change things, it has to be grassroots.

    I want to make it clear that I'm looking at this issue from a "young persons" perspective. If you have a family to support, then you have to do what you have to do to. However, I know so many young people who leave Detroit and Michigan with no goals, They're simply concerned about what they're going to do on Saturday night and figure Chicago, New York, LA etc., etc. have more options. So they look for jobs there.

    There may not be a lot of jobs in the state right now, but there is a lot work to be done.

    I suppose I don't appreciate this attitude (and this isn't directed towards you) of "I'll come back when the problems are fixed", rather than coming back to help fix the problems.
  • steve
    Great insight Rob, I agree with much of what you said and can tell you are passionate about the state as a whole. I know you will make a difference in whatever you do - Michigan really needs it!
  • Hi Stephen Kokx, the post looks very interesting ,hope you return soon.
  • Rob
    These negative comments are making me sick. Native Detroiters and Michiganders need to stop job chasing and open their eyes to the opportunities around them. Yes, Michigan has it's problems, but those problems leave much room for change and progress. Why go through the motions of life just trying to survive and receive a paycheck when you can truly make a lasting impact on a place that needs it most?

    This "grass is always greener" way of thinking is unjustifiably killing our state. Michigan needs young, talented and creative people to bring new industry and ideas to the state, not bolt for Chicago, New York, California, etc. because they think "There's more to do there".
  • steve
    I would challenge you, Rob, as to where these jobs are being offered. Most of the other posters agree with my sentiments.

    I think the mismegement of state budgets as well as a downturn in manufacturing has caused the recession moreso than your proposition that people use the "grass is always greener" ideology.

    Many times, like I said in my post, its not about making a difference where it is needed most. Its about living your life and seeing what else is out there. I, for one, am glad that I moved out of West Michigan - as beautiful as it is - to at least see what else the world has to offer.
  • Tyler
    Both of your arguments have merit.
    1.) Everyone should get out of Michigan and see the world, if they have the means. The value of getting outside your bubble cannot be understated. In spite of my reputation as an epic storyteller, I've never quite found a way to convey what it's like to experience a different culture. And though I have been out of the country and spent time in Europe and also within the country with various latinos, even spending time in Chicago, Boston, down south, etc is invaluable. That does not, however, mean that it is necessary to look outside of the state for work.

    2.) There are jobs in the state of Michigan...with a footnote.
    It took me two months to find a job, and I graduated with nearly a 4.0 and quite a bit of on and off campus involvement, relevant work experience, and a mean set of interview skills. But what ultimately separated me was the willingness to accept job hunting as a 40-60 hr per week job until I actually found employment. Far too many young people get their diplomas and assume that the piece of paper they just spent (sometimes wasted dare I say?) $80k on means employers will come looking for them.
    This is not the case.
    For more on this, see
    http://mazzletof.blogspot.com/2010/03/bachelors-degree-new-standard-unedited.html

    In regards to the "grass is always greener" mentality, I would tend to agree with Rob that it's somewhat of a pandemic/false ideology. People in the state of Michigan have taken this "in this economy" excuse way too far. At the first sign of difficulty finding work, people sit back and just throw their arms up and say, "well, it's Michigan. There's nothing I can do. I guess I'll just ride unemployment until I have to look out of state."

    I have a friend, let's call him McGoo, who has worked as a cable company dispatcher since he graduated 3 years ago. Every time I speak with him, he talks about how much he hates it, how it's a dead end job, etc etc.
    "Man, I'm willing to take anything at this point, as long as I don't have to work at __________ any more."

    So shortly after I found a full-time job, with McGoo in mind, I called him up to turn him onto my hanging job leads.

    I gave him approximately 10 options, and when I finished explaining the different opportunities, he said, "well, that doesn't sound like anything I'm looking for. I'm pretty much holding out for a finance job. I've accepted that I'm probably going to have to start looking out of state because the economy here sucks."

    The problem is that I'm not even sure he knows the first thing about finance, and he's just got a negative, complacent attitude.

    If you refer to the link (article) above, I explain that this is a multi-fold issue.
    Many people that go to college should not go to college. They slack through high school, ride daddy's dime to college, drink, sleep and fornicate their way through a 4 year degree, and then can't figure out why they can't find work when they go to interviews with generic responses they found on "about.com"
    Or they just never had the mental capacity to pursue white collar America and would have been much better served taking on a trade of some kind (which we NEED and will always need).

    Small business owners and corporate human resources people can smell a slacker/BS'er from a mile away. I've heard horror stories already at my work about resumes that looked impressive and promising, only to have and interview with someone about as dynamic as drying concrete.

    I love this topic and this "debate" and I'd love to get feedback on my article.
  • Tbarksdale52
    Michigan is a great state, but because of the cold winters, and lack of job opportunities, a lot of people are leaving. I think people like Michigan but they have to do what they have to do to get a job, even if it means moving to another state.
  • johnsonsjanae@yahoo.com
    Michigan is not a great place to have a life. I understand that their are no jobs for people if you move some place else but Michigan really need to have more things to do for people and some parts of Michigan need to be cleaned up.
  • Derrick
    I've lived in Michigan all my life. I really enjoy the multiculturalism throughout Detroit. It's rare to find such diverse groups of people and subcultures, and traveling to most other states makes it rather obvious that Michigan is special. Despite my large network of friends and the myriad of places to socialize, I find myself fantasizing about leaving Michigan... in the Winter. I'm a gainfully employed student who lives somewhat comfortably -- until Winter arrives. That's the only reason I ever consider leaving. Throughout the Summer I'm happy and socially active, but when Winter hits I'm lethargic, uncomfortable, and at times nearly unable to muster the energy needed to scrape the ice off of my car to get to work. If it was warmer here all year round, I'd stay. But until the Governor of Michigan takes my "giant State-wide heating dome" idea seriously, consideration of leaving my beloved State will resume.
  • m_suka
    Michigan is not worth staying in. There are plenty of other places that resemble Michigan, but without the problems associated with it. On the plus side, Michigan is a great place to visit and go for an education.
  • Liz
    I myself am sick of the cold winters and negative disposition of my fellow Michiganders when it comes to the economy. I am a college student now, working part time; but when I graduate I'd like to head out to Cali. My family has spread out to other states as well, because their jobs got outsourced here. I'll admit - I'm going to bail on Michigan too.
  • Michael
    You are making a great choice. I am born and raised in MI and now live in northern CA and the only thing I regret is not moving out here earlier. There are some things I miss about Michigan but they are very few, I don't miss them much because I am busy enjoying life here. There truly is no reason to stick around.
  • J. Shaw
    Michigan is the hand of America, and America needs its hand.......hell I need my hand. MICHIGAN RULES!!!!!!!!!!!
  • genajohnson
    Dear stephen, the reason i was reading your post was because i am forty something and there is a bookkeeping and accounting school in maryland and they give hands on training in the software and payroll and different rolls in the accounting field..it is accrediated by the maryland board of education...so i have been attending colleges for accounting and i have to complete 6 more classes for a BA in accounting but i wanted to know how will i get a job after school...so i went to maryland to visit a friend and found out about this school...i don't know if it is an answer for you ....but i do feel much better after reading your article to continue to save and go to the school in october 2010...thanks for your article and God Bless you
  • Stephen
    Gena

    That truly is an amazing story. You are proving that it is never too late to obtain an education. I am so glad you found inspiration in my article. And of course, congratulations! Keep me updated

    Stephen
  • Melanie S.1510
    I completly aggree with Stephen. I am a 22 year-old Michigan Native, and I have concidered leaving the state due to thte job market.I have been a resident of Detroit all of my life. Being 22 I love the Downtown Detroit night life, but i have not been able to take advantage of it as much as I would like to; I am currently unemployed. I have seen lots of improvements over the last seven-ten years. Sports Stadiums, cafes, and cleaner streets.I feel that these are wonderful improvements, but the job market has been going down. During the Summer of 2009 I began seeking work in cities like Atlanta and Huston. These places have been place that have had what i needed for many years and I am going to have to do whas best for me. Because after all, fun does NOT pay the bills.
  • May Be Staying
    Originally from Tennessee, I moved to Michigan with great doubts and fears for the future. I used to think that as soon as I received my degree I would move back home. However, I think that there is so much room for improvement in this state; it is inspiring to think I could possibly make it better. I believe that if there were more options to create change in Michigan, more people would agree.
  • Ricky
    I am in a similar situation where I've gone through school,going through another (coming to an end in another semester or so) and have to start looking at the future career wise. I am contemplating a move to California as I am a film student and thats where the industry is. Michigan is starting to get the industry but its not exactly a huge amount, if in the future Michigan becomes more welcoming to the film industry, I would possibly return.
  • Varian Wrynn
    I plan to leave Michigan and I don't plan on coming back unless something changes drastically here. The state seems to be in a state of suspense; while the rest of the country continues to expand and move forward economically and technologically Michigan continues to struggle just to stay afloat. It's hard to find full-time work and my home city of Detroit is like a bombed out 3rd world city. Roads are bad and cause damage to my vehicles and it seems like they're in a constant state of repair. I'm just sick of it all and I'm tired of the miserable winters on top of all that.
  • Taylor
    Michigan citizens are so caught up in how it is everywhere else they don't stop to think, if we all supported each other and our state we may be in a better place.Leaving Michigan isn't always the answer necessarily because if everyone leaves less and less people are left to pick up the peices and get our economy back on track.
  • shalawn
    I believe that leaving Michigan will not solve any problems. If we all decide to migrate to other states for employement, we just might suck up all their job oppurtunities. I'm not quite sure as to what may help the economy here but greed, and irresponsibility sure don't.
  • Jaclyn
    You have a very good point. I'm sure that many younger people would love to stay in Michigan, their home state, but it is very difficuly to dedicate yourself to a state that you can't find a job in after graduation. Hopefully someday Michigan will be able to offer better jobs so that forner residents can return. I personally would like to stay in Michigan after I graduate, but there are so many other states with much greater job opportunity and that pay better. Jobs are very hard to find in Michigan, especially with the career path that I am going into. I hope that eventually I will be able to return and live near my family when the economy of Michigan improves.
  • Rob
    I did not like the ending of this piece. "When and if that happens, I'll be back". Why rely on others? If you care, come back and help make it happen.
  • Steve
    Good point Rob . But I feel that in order for me to be an influential voice , I need to educate myself on the issues first. Meaning, my time in grad school is imperative to future successes. Chicago- although not far from my home- has allowed me to appreciate my roots even more. I am definitely contemplating a return to Michigan after graduation. Steve
  • Good work, Steve.
    You make a lot of valid points. I think Michigan, at its heart, is at the same cultural level as other states, they just don't let that interior show! This year's Art Prize was a PHENOMENAL idea and a huge success. I think Grand Rapids could really get some exposure if it continues, especially if the city continues to buy some of the art work each year and exhibit it around the city.
    Tourism should be a focus of Michigan. I have been all around Europe and the US, and maybe I am biased, but it has a ton to offer, in the winter and especially in the summer.
    Northern Michigan and the lake shore are gems.
    Just like I said in my blog, it's got to be time to move on past the auto/furniture days and get into alternative energy, tourism and medical research. It's funny that you made the same exact suggestions.
    http://multifariousmusingsofmazzle.blogspot.com/2010/02/direction-of-michigan.html
  • Kate
    This is a really eloquent, fair assessment. As someone that works on a lot of the efforts to try to help people connect with, and stay in, Michigan, thank you.
  • nbashaw
    You pose an excellent question: "is there any reason why young people should pledge allegiance to the Wolverine state?"

    I don't know what (if anything) makes something worth pledging allegiance to. It seems kind of irrational. I just have a feeling that as humans we need to work towards goals. The goal of bringing this downtrodden state back to greatness excites a lot of people. I guess it could be arbitrary, but I prefer the term unexplained.
  • Michael
    I don't understand the idea of pledging an allegiance to the state when the leaders of this state don't really seem to care. I think "what stake do the young people have in the growth of the state" as opposed to working to build their careers elsewhere? Within the state there needs to be some incentive and a collective effort to improve and change. I am not sure that exists, for the leaders of the state and other to sit by and simply say "you should do this" is simply not enough. I just don't think that enough people really care within Michigan. Michigan is in the state it is in because most people are not dynamic and don't recognize the need to change and grow. As you indicated, first and foremost people work to improve "their" situation first and the collective second. If the first isn't met how can you expect a commitment on the second?
  • EricfromtheZoo
    Yes, the younger and creative generation (including myself), needs to take risks and start new ventures to invigorate our urban areas. But do we lack this spirit more than other regions? Is Michigan really years behind the rest of the country culturally? Chicago yes, but more so than the rural south, etc... probably not. It also depend where in Michigan you look. Some of our smaller cities (Ann Arbor, Kalamazoo) come to mind, have some great cultural scenes going on. The major issue with starting new and radical developments is that they often fail. 1000 new startups are not going to re-make the national and global economic structures that are affecting life in our state. Even the re-branding of our diverse and incredible land will not change these base factors.
  • Exiled in Colorado
    I love Michigan. I'd rather be there than anywhere else. I also left because I couldn't find work after college, but I haven't given up. It might be a few years, but once a chance comes along, I'll take it in a heartbeat.
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